Usually when people get defensive, there's some shame involved. I had thought he was when he and I were not intimate for a long time. This is feature allows you to search the site. Help I have a close friend that I think maybe bi I have a foot fetish and like males touching my feet when I put my feet near his foot he just leaves it there and doesn't move. We worked on it together over a glass of wine on our front porch, smiling and waving at unknowing neighbours as they walked by. No mention of the grief, betrayal and feelings of the straight spouse.
Unfortunately at a point when things were extremely bad between us just about three months ago we had a very bad fight and he went on a binge.
How helping my husband discover he’s gay helped me let go
Telling the kids was harder—there never is a perfect time. I became concerned and thoughts started to swirl around in my head with ideas that I didn't want to believe. Sorry for the rant. Also keep in mind that an absence of this sign doesn't always mean he's not into men, either. Then I shook my head and wondered where that had come from.
Is he abusive or a homosexual? My boyfriend jokes about being gay a lot But every time I became worried enough to see a doctor, my symptoms would disappear. He is in his early 50s. He has much to do in his childrens eyes to make it up to them. I just always thought he was joking around and just having fun but now I think he was having a little too much fun.